Are you listening? | Interpersonal Relations

Three simple but rather uncommon words. Three great words not only for the public speakers but for everyone, according to me. Today, I’ll talk about ‘Ethos’ What is Ethos? It reflects your credentials. I explain to my students like this. “Imagine that you are appointed Ambassador of your country to another state. The first job that you have to do is to present your authorization documents to the head of the state in which you are appointed Ambassador. Likewise, a speaker must present his/her credentials to the audience. The audience must know that you are the right person to speak on the subject. That youRead More →

Are you listening? | Interpersonal Relations

Elders used to say that simple old ‘sayings’ can guide you to live a successful life. One such saying in Hindi is “Pehle Tol Phir Bol”. Literal translation in English would be “First weigh then speak”. Literal English translation is rather awkward and does not convey the intent. “Think before you speak” too, according to me does not carry the same meaning and is rather ineffective. “Before speaking a few words one must consider the effects and their future impact” appears to convey the thought behind the same, though it does not seem to carry conviction. Why there is so much importance of ‘considering’ orRead More →