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    Attitude Is Everything-Here’s How to Keep It Positive

    Life would be a dream if it worked out how its supposed to! Surely its not too much for any of us to expect things could start to go our way for once, right?Wellthere is a way for this to happen and it comes without any strings attached, its completely free because its already inside you. Got you curious? Its called attitude. The way that we perceive the things that happen to us, the way we react to lifes hurdles andset backs,and how we cope when curve balls are thrown our way are the major determinants that differentiate successful outcomes from failure. A positive attitude, a deep held belief that…

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    How to beat procrastination?

    If you want to remove procrastination you must contemplate on the following three aspects of procrastination. Reasons of procrastination so far as you are concerned. Decision to remove procrastination from your life. How to overcome procrastination at all times. First of all let us talk about the reasons for procrastination. There could be following one or more reasons. These are laziness, indecision and health issues. It is necessary to find out which of these reasons are present in your personality and affecting your work. If there are health issues, you must consult your doctor. In cases where there are some problems and you feel fatigue most of the time, you…

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    Remedy Four Causes of Indecision

    About 500 years ago Shakespeare wrote the tragic play- ‘Hamlet’. His tragedy emanates from major personality flaw- indecision. Indeed, the drama exaggerates the flaw and the hero suffers a disaster. This malady is, however, more wide spread in the current scenario. The acute competition & the rat race of the present times have made fear of rejection more prominent than ever before. The gin of fear is causing tremendous stress to most people. Four steps are listed below that will help mitigating the fear which is main cause of indecision. Always remember that ‘left to themselves things go from bad to worse’. This you must have experienced in life. So…

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    Enemies of Happiness- Indecision

    1. Spend a few days noticing when the malady i.e. indecision bothers you? What types of things  trouble you? Are they small things or big things? How much time do you devote to make simple decisions? 2. one thing to focus on, something that you’re constantly struggle with (it could be what time to get up the morning, what to eat that day, what outfit to wear). Make sure it’s a small thing to start with. Bigger problems can be dealt when you are more experienced. 3. When you go to a restaurant do you take too much time to decide what to order? 4. When your boss asks you…

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    Enemies of Happiness

    In my last posting I had mention that as a 1st step we must identify enemies of our Happiness. These are broadly speaking of two types. Enemies of happiness residing within ourselves. Enemies outside. These could be people; this could be a tasks which you don’t like or environment. In today’s posting I like to tell you about enemies of Happiness which are within are our own selves. I have listed eight. There could be more. Based on these 8 you can prepare your own list. Because Happiness is of prime importance to all of us, we must apply our mind deeply to correct the situation. Following is the list…

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    Lessons of Life from Shakespeare.

    Any great literary writer is invariably a great teacher. Writer will not sermonize. Life of the current time (normally) is beautifully portrayed. Yet, one could draw great inferences and learn very useful lessons that help humans to live life better. I don’t claim to have read much of Shakespeare, but I am one of his great admirers. Works of Shakespeare transcend the limits of time and space. He is as relevant today as he was in his time. He is as relevant in India as in England. I have picked up 4 of his tragedies. According to me these are eye openers for common people like us. The four plays…