• Personality development

    4 Secret rules to deal with Difficult People

    Rule One: Just think of driving a car. You have to use controls to drive you straight when you are driving. Mainly, you use steering wheel, accelerator & breaks. There are other facilities like horn, signals, rear view mirror etc. When you are dealing with difficult people, you have to follow 3 critical steps. These are: i) stay calm ii) find help and iii) debrief. In heavy traffic you tend to lose your cool. Likewise, with a difficult person you have a tendency to become impatient. Dont do that. Stay calm. You may try to find help. Someone who you think can guide you or act as a mediator to…

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    Dealing with difficult people.

    Each person is an individual. The way they are, think, act or react are also different. So they are bound to be. Often times we perceive certain people as difficult even though they may not be if we try to understand them closely. In any case there are indeed some difficult people. We have to deal with them, nevertheless. We cannot avoid them in society, family and/or work place. It is necessary to form a strategy of dealing with difficult people who are important to us. The critical steps are To specify what we want to achieve. Which means could be best to achieve the objective. To understand them (difficult…